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What to Do While Waiting for 3D Manifestation

4/7/2024

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I was watching one of my favorite tarot readers, and she was talking about last month's eclipse. What she said about doing what you "should" do instead of what lights you up, really struck me. She encouraged us, because she drew the Queen of Cups card, to dissolve the shoulds, and double down on self-care, instead.
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Dissolve the Shoulds, and
​Focus on Self-Care

Queen of Cups is in this time where she is waiting for the 3D to reflect her insides. "I'm doubling down on self-care. I'm increasing or expanding my rituals. And I will patiently wait through my meditation, through my water ritual, through my divination, through my prayer. - Jessica from High Priestess Tarot on YouTube

Remember that John Mayer song, Waiting on the World to Change? That's one manifestation we might all be waiting for, right now.

But I'm also sharing this message specifically for healers and lightworkers. If day in and day out, you've been working on your own spiritual growth, emotional healing and expansion, but you're still waiting to see that reflected in your 3D experience, dive into the most nurturing self-care practice you can create.

Many of us prioritize healing, and spiritual growth, sometimes to the point of exhaustion. I am going to call that out as programming, healers. I think we overdo it, by a mile, because that's what we've learned to do.

But you are and have done enough, and going at it harder won't create change any faster. Instead, take a break, and focus on what lights you up for a while.

I'm taking this in, myself, too!

Not having your vision materialize yet is not a sign of failure or inadequacy. You are living your purpose and your guides cheer for and are proud of you.

But I believe that right now, they want you to rest, and focus on emotional self-care.

Love you guys!

Jeanine
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8 Comments
Amy link
4/7/2024 09:08:38 am

Taking a nap or any sort of rest usually opens me up to knowing what to do next or feeling less anxious! I also sometimes dream about my next step since I'm relaxing. I definitely embrace self-care.

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Jeanine Byers link
4/7/2024 10:38:25 pm

That's wonderful! I have been taking some good naps lately. But for me, answers often come when I am doing or thinking about something else. Watching a movie, reading a book, listening to music. I'm glad rest works so well for you.

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Tamara link
4/7/2024 10:34:12 am

Jeanine, I did exactly this yesterday, but I didn't do it on purpose. I was going to take my water bottle, and snack when I left the house yesterday. I was also going to load the washing machine. I sort of forgot about all three and just left to spend a nice day in the city.
Texted my teenage son later and asked him to do the laundry. Win! (For me, but hey, the 99 other times, I do laundry for him. So it's all good, right?)

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Jeanine Byers link
4/7/2024 10:39:59 pm

Oh, that sounds lovely, Tamara! Looks like leaving it all behind worked out well for you. But I'm also glad you didn't have the laundry waiting for you when you got back. :)

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Linda Reed Friedman link
4/7/2024 11:20:09 am

We need to remind ourselves to breathe. Thank you

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Jeanine Byers link
4/7/2024 10:40:57 pm

You're welcome, Linda! And you're so right. We do

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Kebba Buckley Button link
4/7/2024 10:56:34 pm

Jeanine, yes! When I put something out into the Creative Force, and I'm waiting, I say, "it's busy manifesting." Some things necessarily occur only when other things have moved into place. I believe in God's timing. So today I took a glorious shower, got a mani-pedi, ate favorite pizza (from my freezer so just what I wanted), took a glorious nap, and created my UBC post. Good stuff!

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Jeanine Byers link
4/8/2024 01:26:50 am

Thanks, Kebba! That's great! I'm still working on the self-care part, myself, but I'm aiming for it.

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